The Best Ways To Read Aloud To Your Child

Reading is amazing! But did you know how you read aloud to your child can make a BIG difference to what they get out of the experience?

I have already covered why reading is so important to a child’s development and future success in life and why it’s so important to foster a love of reading from a young age.

All the time you spend reading with your children is important, however, not all reading methods were created equally!

In this post I’ll be looking at some of the scientifically proven best ways you should read aloud to your child to ensure that they develop into the greatest, most confident, and competent readers they possibly can be.

Listening to a Story Isn’t as Passive as You May Think

being read to is not as passive as you may think
There’s a lot going on in their little brains when they are listening to a story

Reading alone can be a highly enjoyable and relaxing way to spend some of your free time time. However, as many young children do not possess the reading skills to enjoy a book completely by themselves, reading to them can be the only way many can access a wider variety of stories and texts.

Even with older children it’s still beneficial. I still have fond memories of my parents reading to me and my little sister before bed – even though I was able to read pretty well by then.

Children thoroughly immersed and focussed on a story is a wonderful sight to behold (especially when more fidgety children get so engrossed). At the school I work in we try to read at least one story to our class each day and often they will just all sit nicely – completely absorbed in the tale that is unfolding before them. They will laugh and make ‘oohs’ and ‘ahhs’, some of the braver ones may call out what they think is going to happen next but most will just appear to be quiet listeners taking it all in.

An experience like this is really pleasant to be a part of, but even if the children appear to be listening passively there is a lot of brainwork taking place.

The child that is being read aloud to will be drawing upon their prior knowledge to gain understanding of what they are listening to. This can include:

  • Making comparisons to other stories. How does this story differ from or relate to what they have heard before? ‘Hey, that’s like the other story which had a Big Bad Wolf in it’.

The Benefits of Reading Aloud to your Child

Reading to children

Reading aloud to your child can have massive benefits to their literacy learning and can really influence their future love of reading.

Reading aloud has been found to improve a child’s vocabulary knowledge and their reading comprehension, with the effects being greater in younger children. It has also recently been reported that children who are read a lot to at home can start school having heard around 1.4 million more words than those whose parents don’t read to them.

As children grow, their continuing interest in books and magazines is greater if they were read aloud to when they were younger.

It helps promote their speaking and listening skills which will help improve their language development. Noticeable differences in infant speech have between recorded between children that were read aloud to and those that were not.

It helps to improve their phonological awareness (understanding the sounds of their language and how they go together). Parents tend to emphasize rhyming words and patterns when reading aloud which helps children to absorb the sound and ‘feel’ of their native language; and a child’s knowledge of nursery rhymes at age 3 to 4 has been shown to make them better at detecting alliteration and rhyme at ages 4 to 7.

Reading aloud is also a wonderful shared experience. It’s a chance for parents and carers to spend some quality time and bond with their children. This can help your child to develop self esteem and to know that you are there for them.


Read Aloud For Bonding
Reading to your child can help you bond and improve their self esteem.

Shared book reading can also form a part of a lovely bedtime routine and can help to comfort and calm your child, especially if it’s a story that they are familiar with and have heard before. We’ve got loads (lots of Julia Donaldson and Oliver Jeffers) of stories that we love to read to our little one before bedtime. They really help to calm him and let him know it’s almost time to enter the Land of Nod.

Strategies to Improve How You Read Aloud to Your Child

It’s beneficial whenever you read aloud to your child but there are some things you can do when you’re reading to them to improve their experience. We all want our children to be the best readers they can be, right?

So here are some things you can do to ensure your child gets the most out of being read to:

  • Firstly, keep it fun. It shouldn’t be a chore. When children’s experiences with reading are pleasant, they are more likely to develop a lasting love of reading. Lot’s of energy; facial expressions; emotion; different voices for different characters; and varying the tempo and volume that you read all help to create an immersive storytelling experience.

I’ll let one of the masters show you how to do it:

Now, we can’t all expect to be as amazing at storytelling as the magnificent Michael Rosen but adding a little character to the reading can make a big difference.

  • Ask questions. In Diversity in Adults’ Styles of Reading Books to Children, Reese et al. talk about the power of questioning whilst reading to improve understanding and to get the child to be an active participant in the read aloud experience. They provide a list of questions you could ask to really get your child thinking, such as:
  1. Labels – The labeling of colours, objects or animals – e.g. ‘What is this?’ or ‘What colour is her hat?’
  2. Picture Descriptions – Asking what is happening in the pictures – e.g. ‘What’s the man doing with the spade here?’
  3. Evaluations – Asking the child what they think of the story and if they like it.
  4. Inferences – Getting the child to predict what may happen next using reasoning – e.g. ‘What do you think the dog’s going to do with that bone? Why?’
  5. General Knowledge – Asking general questions about the story (can be counting or definitions) – e.g. ‘What’s a crocodile?’ or ‘How many ducks can you see?’
  6. Whole Book – Questions about the book or reading in general – e.g. ‘What’s this book called?’ or ‘How do we hold a book and turn the pages?’
  7. Personal Experience – Linking the story to things or experiences the child may know about – e.g. ‘Have you ever been to the zoo?’

Hopefully, by asking lots of questions you can ensure your child is engaged, actively thinking, and improve their understanding of the story they are hearing.

  • Explain parts of the story to them and offer definitions as you go. One study in New Zealand, recorded vocabulary gains of 40% when the teacher offered definitions of new words they encountered as they read aloud to their class.
  • Reread the same book many times – this is obviously linked to the above point as it will give them the confidence to join in and helps build fluency and a better understanding of rhythm and language.

Well, I hope that has helped to show why you should read aloud to your childand also given you some strategies which you can use during reading to complement and enhance the experience.

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Tamra Cater
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Tamra Cater

This is a great post! Kids can learn so much from reading! I absolutely love the video you posted. I really wish I could be as good as him at it!!